So you broke up with your boyfriend/girlfriend. And after crying buckets, tossing a good number of tissue paper in the trash can and indulging in binge eating to ward off depression, you finally decide that you are still madly in love with her/him and you want him/her back.

If you’re convinced about getting your ex back, first get to the root of the problem.A breakup story is different for every couple. One common denominator, however, is that it is COMPLICATED. Some fall out of love, some are torn apart by time and distance, still others are consumed by irreconcilable differences. But the most common reason would have to be-someone CHEATED.

Regardless of whether you are the on who cheated or got cheated on, delve deeper to the source of the dilemma. If cheating happened, then there must be something going awry in the relationship in the first place.

But why would a man or woman cheat?

Men, in general, have a larger ego compared to women. Most men demand that they be admired. They need to feel and know that they are needed. ON the other hand, women are the dreamy, more affectionate ones. A man throws a corny joke and the woman would be quick to laugh. The woman is the more touchy-feely type-wanting to always look gorgeous and dressed up for her man. Because of the tremendous amount of admiration women bestow upon them, it is not surprising that men are very egoistic.

But things become different several months later. The woman isn’t all doll-eyed for her man anymore-she doesn’t laugh at his jokes, dress up for him. She isn’t as affectionate and warm as she used to be.

Rarely do men cheat because they found somebody prettier. It’s really because they feel that their partner fell out of admiration for him.

And if he finds someone who laughs at his jokes, who cares for him and who reminds him of what he had several months ago-you have a love story doomed to be buried alive.

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